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Honesty
If you are planning to break up a dating relationship, know
that you are probably going to hurt that person. Most people
are afraid to tell the person they are dating that it has to
end; however, if you can be honest with them as soon as you
know your true feelings, you both can avoid additional pain.
In the end, your former partner will respect your honesty.
That being said, being honest does not mean being cruel.
When you explain why you feel the relationship has to end,
remember your history together and temper your words rather
than say something harsh you may regret.
How Rejection Can Help You
It`s hard to deal with rejection at any age. But think about
it this way: If you were never rejected by anyone you dated,
you would probably marry the first person you dated and miss
out on all those great relationships throughout the rest of
your life! Ultimately, rejection gives us the opportunity to
meet new people and have new experiences. Rejection also
makes us stronger. Every time we survive a bad break up, we
are stronger for it and are more mentally ready to meet the
next person who could be that 'special someone.'
Getting Over The Hurt
I remember being told that the person I was seriously dating
didnīt want to see me anymore. I remember the pain. It hurt
so bad, I was sick to my stomach. I didnīt want to get out
of bed; I just wanted to cry and cry. My family said, "In
time, your feelings will change." I didn't want to hear
that; you may not either...yet. Only with time will you be
able to deal with the pain. Soon you will realize that you
need to move on; that you are a good person; and that the
person who broke up with you made a choice. You can make
your own choices, too...in time.
Lighten Up
We worry too much about dating. We worry about everything
from talking too much to whether our boy/girlfriend really
likes us. If you worry too much or have little confidence in
your dating skills, lighten up!
1) Be kind to everyone. This will create success because
everyone likes being around kind people.
2) Be upbeat! No one likes to be around someone who is
constantly negative.
3) If someone likes you, expect them to treat you with
respect and warmth. If they donīt, donīt waste your precious
dating years on someone who is going to abuse you.
Remember, people are attracted to people who calm, centered
and happy. And if you act that way, you will begin to feel
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